I think my previous entry was definately too harsh.... I was indeed furious and mad.. but i feel based on one incident i shldn't allow others (those who doesn't know my bf well) to judge him negatively or whatsoever. Indeed what he said had hurt my feelings. But one must not hold such grudges, it will only dampen the relationship even more. All I ask is for more sensitivity and I'm sure and hope everythign will be better.